Just Thinking: Time and Chance
September 5, 2012By V. Knowles

I returned and saw under the sun that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favor to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Ecclesiastes 9 v 11


Timing and opportunity are the keys to success.


They are not capricious. They do not discriminate. They do not shortchange or rob you.


Every one receives the same allocation of 24 hours in a day, 60 minutes in an hour and 60 seconds in a minute.


The only difference is how you choose to handle or mishandle your allotment. Some men will find a way to survive in the desert while others will starve to death in a fertile field. The thing that sets men apart is attitude. Your attitude in all circumstances will determine whether you emerge out of any situation intact, positive and victorious.


Do not be careless and cavalier with time.


Do not squander opportunity.


Each one is in short supply on the carousel or the ferris wheel of life.


Moreover, you only have one ticket to ride.


So you cannot be sure they will visit you again.


As the GOOD BOOK so aptly warns us, you must work while it is yet day for the night is coming when no man can work.


You must be watching, waiting, preparing for life as it comes at you suddenly and when you least expect it.


Rudyard Kipling reminds us in the poem called "If"--


If you can dream and not make dreams your master.

If you can think and not make thoughts your aim

If you can meet with triumph and disaster

And treat those two impostors just the same.

If you can fill that unforgiving minute

With sixty seconds worth of distance run

Yours will be the earth's and what's in it

What's more you will be a man my son.



Consider once again the tale of the ten virgins. They were all pure and undefiled. They all had lamps at the ready. They all ostensibly were invited to the wedding feast.


Nevertheless, five of them became lax and non-vigilant. In addition, they had not prepared for the vicissitudes of life. They failed to bring additional oil to trim their lamps in case the bridegroom delayed his appearance. Furthermore, they fell asleep and allowed their lamps to burn out. Then, just as with life, more often than not, a cry is heard in the middle of the night.


The bridegroom is coming. Rudely awakened from their slumber, they discover to their consternation that their lamps have died out. They begged for some fuel from the five wise virgins. They were refused, thus learning a cruel lesson of life. Even though someone may be willing to help you, he or she may not have enough to spare at the time you need it. You must store up for a rainy day. They were instructed to go into the village and purchase the necessary item. After so doing, they returned and were refused entry. They had arrived too late and the door was already locked with nobody else being admitted. In that moment, they became thoroughly familiar with the sailor's axiom, "Time and tide waits for no man."


So, even though you have an invitation.


You know all the right people.


You possess the necessary qualifications.


You are in the correct place at the appropriate time.


You must be awake watching, looking and listening for opportunity because sometimes it walks, talks and knocks very softly.


Do not enter the arena of life with prejudice and preconceived notions. Time and chance may not come in garb suited to your taste. They may not match your idea of perfection and may cause you to step beyond your comfort zone. As I have told you before and remind you once again, there is a price and cost for everything. You must give to get.


Imagine for a moment that you are invited to football training camp for a tryout. The coach tells you that this is the only one. You have one time, one shot, one chance to make the team. This is your last time to make a first impression. This has been your dream and heart's desire for as long as you can remember. Opportunity and victory are within your grasp. They are so close that you can smell, feel and taste them.


Do you spend your nights frequenting bars and strip clubs?. Do you waste your days sleeping until 2 o'clock in the afternoon only to repeat the same destructive pattern the next day?


No. You study game plans until your head aches. You watch videotape until your eyes become red. You remain long after official practice, after all the other players have called it quits. You assault the merciless sleds and ruthless tackling dummies with a vengeance. You wring every drop of sweat out of your exhausted body. Then, you summon the courage to squeeze out a little more until your agonizing soul screams, "Enough!"


Even though it is a long shot, you persist because this is important to you. You would expend so much time, energy and effort in a game that is so temporary and fleeting. Yet life that is so serious, so much more than a game, with eternal implications, you would choose to waste.


Think about that.




V. Knowles is a husband and father with an interest in penning issues that serve to uplift mankind. He melds his love for Classic literature, The Bible and pop culture - as sordid as it may be - into highly relatable columns of truth, faith and justice. Hence the name: Just Thinking. If he's not buried in a book or penning his next column, you may find him pinned to his sectional watching a good old Country and Western flick.




 






Visitor Comments (1)
Insightful
Posted By LINGOSO on September 11, 2012
This was really insightful and well thought out. I have referred to the story with the 5 wise and 5 foolish virgins throughout the course of my grownup life. I always thought about how they were virgins which meant they was perfectly capable of being married because they were pure and holy. They had light in their candles and they were invited to come to the wedding, and were actually the main event. Nevertheless along the way they didn't think that they needed extra oil for their lamps and when they had the opportunity to get it they didn't. This parable can be used in any situation and it basically states the fact that you have to work for things you want in life. It doesn't matter in this time and day if you have a masters if you don't have experience you wont get the job you qualify for, you will have to work your way up. So I have learned that along the way of getting the thing I really want in life I have to work for it. I am going to push and give effort to the things I want out of life because in reality it isn't just going to fall in lap. Actors that get called in for a movie go on tons of auditions before they get picked. Even if someone spots them on the road, you have to impress the casting crew and the director, at the end of the day if you don't know how to act and you cant sell the scene the way its supposed to someone else will. This is a true life lesson and we should remember this and use this in our everyday lives so we don't sleep on our destiny. Everyday is a golden opportunity to go out and achieve what you want to get where you want to go in life, if it is your passion and your desire your going to put your best foot forward and pray God will bless you along the way.
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