From celebrities to average individuals, friends to family members, sexual abuse and domestic violence have scarred the lives of thousands across the world. Many victims are forever silenced while some find the voice within them to speak up.

Take Back the Night, hosted by CUNY Lehman College in the Bronx, New York on Tuesday, April 24 served to support survivors, console them as they heal as well as bring awareness to students.

After introductory remarks by a campus counselor Nicole Madonna Rosario and Lehman's vice president Jose Magdeleno and Dean John Holloway, attendees were reeled into the program with a student theatrical production called "The Witness." It was written by Andre Bell and performed and directed by Lehman students.

"Even if one person leaves helped, that's what's important," said Rosario, who was part of the planning committee for this year's event. "Over time, I want this event to change the culture of our section of the world so [sexual abuse and domestic violence] becomes a conversation and less of a stigma. It's like setting up the game of dominoes, but sometimes you have to set it up for a while so that it flows."

Take Back the Night is an international function that aims to unify women, men and children who are victims of various forms of violence.

The first documented Take Back the Night event was executed in 1975 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania after a woman was stabbed by a stranger while walking home alone. Since then, the movement has sparked interest in family and friends of victims and survivors across the U.S and Europe.

In 2001, Katie Koestner founded the international headquarters and charitable 501(c)3 for Take Back the Night along with others who are passionate about the mission of the foundation.

According to a 2006-2010 national crime victimization survey conducted by the U.S Department of Justice, 54 percent of rapes and sexual assaults were unreported with an average 207,754 victims of 12 years or older annually.

Despite such enormous figures, some victims haven't allowed the statistics to silence them.

Sheena Lashay, a product of date rape and survivor of childhood sexual abuse, reported her incident to the police. She was victimized by her now ex step-father, a community and church leader, beginning at age 7 until age 14. Her church and various family members knew about the abuse and all urged her to keep quiet. Raised as a conservative evangelical yet also a non-denominational fundamentalist Christian in what she describes as a cult-like church, Lashay was told by church leaders that she would be hell-bound if she uttered a word.

"He didn't serve a day in prison," said Lashay, emphasizing that the case file was mysteriously misplaced even after her perpetrator confessed. "He's actually a current church leader and teaches teenagers on sexuality. Interesting."

Interesting indeed and quite disturbing. The result of his charge is not unfamiliar, however, as 97 percent of rapists are not incarcerated.

Sexual abuse is not just a "Catholic problem" - as some have coined it - or an epidemic that plagues the "immoral" non-believers. There are leaders of various faith communities who stand before their assemblies every week and are still not convicted by their wrongdoings.

The Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP), a national, self-help organization of victims of sexual abuse by clergy affirms just that. Baptist Outreach Director of the program, Christa Brown, was also victimized by her youth leader at a Southern Baptist church.

Although Lashay currently lives a fulfilling life--as a writer, blogger, YouTuber, and spokesperson for the Rape Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) among other endeavors--Lashay confessed that it was not always that way. In her My name is...Sheena Lashay video, which has over 2,000 views, she shares excerpts of her journal depicting her anger, confusion and bout with suicide because of her dark memories.

The other two speakers present at the event knew exactly what it was like to want to turn to suicide when all else seemed to fail. Andrew Willis and Ralph Castro, both spoke of their encounter with death.

" ...last year I swallowed three hundred Tylenol PMs. I was unconscious for five days," said Willis when asked how he deals with people giving him a time limit for getting over his abuse. "When you're trying to kill yourself you're trying to do so for a reason, it's because you have no value left to your life."

Willis, a native of Hong Kong, China is also a child sexual abuse survivor as well as a domestic violence survivor. Now in his mid-40s, Willis has been bombarded occasionally by friends and his parents about his investing so much time and money in stopping sexual abuse and domestic violence. He is currently the CEO of Stop Abuse Campaign, a movement which aims to stop sexual, physical and emotional abuse.

"Now that I've found something that keeps me alive you'd think that you'd support me rather than questioning why I'm doing it, that just seems more productive to me," said Willis, critical of his family's position.

According to the National Institute of Justice and Centers for Disease Control & Prevention, 2.78 million men have been victims of sexual assault and rape in the U.S alone.

For years, society displayed the silhouettes of women as the targets for sexual abuse and domestic violence, yet some people are astonished to discover that males are victimized, as well. Sexual abuse and domestic violence does not have distinct prey. Women, men, children, elderly, hetero/homosexual, Black, White, Hispanic, European--no one is exempt from the attacks.

The stigma that has been promoted for years is the notion that men should never be vulnerable; they should not cry, be weak or fearful in any circumstance.

"If I can make you cry, then I can make you talk," said Alan Fuentes, an advisor at Lehman's Career Services during the Remember the Night meet up on Wednesday, April 25.

Men are supposed to be powerful leaders, independent, strong and self reliable. That's the standard that has been set and adhered to by many. It is also the very standard that has sparked violence and abuse due to the lack of filters available to men.

"Power is taken away from you and you learn that love equals sex and power equals violence," said Ralph Castro, a native of Bronx, New York, holding back tears. "How do I get that power back and what are the consequences that come with regaining that power?"

Due to the abuse at home, Castro went from a college-bound student to a troubled kid who dropped out of school. He joined a gang and, while living on the streets, became addicted to cocaine and then crack cocaine, which led to stealing to support his habit. He pushed away his loved ones and got violent with his girlfriend who wanted to help him. He lived a destructive lifestyle and contemplated suicide.

Arrested for assault with a deadly weapon and some petty larceny charges, he did years of probation and community service. About five years ago, he began the process of healing.

Lehman's Take Back the Night event was Castro's first time speaking publicly about his childhood sexual abuse. It's a secret that he has kept into his mid-40s.

The statute of limitations in New York for child sex abuse is five years after it is reported to police or five years after the victim turns 18. In recent years, however, many have been pushing for an extension in the law.

If the limitation is extended, survivors would be able to report their crimes into their elderly age. In Pennsylvania, the criminal statute of limitations extends until the victim is 50 years old with child sex abuse victims filing suit before they turn 30.

Many protest, however, that the victim's memory becomes unreliable with the passing of time and evidence may become insufficient if not stored appropriately.

Through poetry, which was suggested by Castro's therapist, he was able to relieve himself of the some of the tension, grief and anger brought on by his trauma.

Here is an excerpt from Ralph Castro's poem Darkness consumes the light:

Out of a blissful, deep slumber I am stirred

visions of toys and childish things now blurred

through wispy, sleepy, innocent eyes I see

a grown, naked man standing infront of me

As I wipe hours of cake sleep,

now mingled with warm tears

warm tears once dry, I start to question why?

a childhood erased in a blink of an eye, why?

Just call out, my soul shouts in vain

Open your mouth and tell of this thing

the harder I try... the voice stayed silent within

You want me to do what?!

As if in a trance I moved behind a naked man,

facing his backside

I hear a noise, Lord I hear a noise

...confusion as my mind starts to reel,

Overloaded by all the sensations I feel...

Castro is committed to healing and stopping abuse.

"I'm working on finding my own voice and helping others find their voice," he said. "That's where the healing begins. I try to see the silver lining in things that happen to me and try to turn it around."

All the speakers reflect the notion of influencing other survivors to be bold about using their voices.

"Even if you never knew anything about me," said Lashay. "I'd hope that if you ever have a conversation with me, or read my blog, or I tweeted you, you'd leave that conversation feeling empowered or feeling the comfort of expressing exactly who you are."

As the event concluded, the step team performed then students marched around the campus quad, holding a candlelight vigil. They carried and read aloud words on poster boards created by Lehman's Freshman Year Initiative (FYI) students. Guests were invited to share a poem or a personal story doing the open mic portion, which also featured a short skit. Guests received a t-shirt in honor of the event, along with an alert whistle and ribbons in honor of the day.

Organizations such as Safe Horizon, RAINN and Men Can Stop Rape among others are available to assist victims and survivors of abuse.